Why laughter is truly the best medicine
By John Gloster-Smith and Akasha Lonsdale
Published in "Stress News", January 2007, Vol 19 No 1, by
the International Stress Management Association
The news this summer was that the government was looking into
ways to make us happier. As the BBC programme “The Happiness
Formula” in May 2006 showed, happiness levels in Britain are
falling. In fact the proportion of people saying they are very
happy has fallen from 52% in1957 to just 36% today, despite
huge increases in income. As professionals in the Stress arena,
you will no doubt be well aware of the statistics that show
increasingly serious levels of stress being experienced by
people. So the news about happiness levels is unlikely to be a
surprise.
What research has tended to show, is that there are certain key
factors that contribute to happiness. As the major publicist of
Positive Psychology, Dr. Martin Seligman of the University of
Pennsylvania has determined that three components stand out:
pleasure (the “smiley-face piece”), engagement (the depth of
involvement with family, work, romance and hobbies) and meaning
(using personal strengths to serve some larger end). Seligman
says that engagement and meaning are particularly important.
Other researchers have pointed to bondedness with friends,
family and loved ones as a major contributor.
So, if we look at laughter as one manifestation of happiness,
it turns out that it’s not something we tend to do
alone. “It is a
tool of communication” says Robert Provine of the University of
Maryland. Also
laughter is infectious, once one person starts, others quickly
follow (very difficult if someone gets the giggles in the
middle of something that’s meant to be deadly
serious.) When we
laugh with others, we feel more connected to them – it’s part
of our bonding.
But what has been
happening to laughter and why is it so important? What does
laughter have to tell us about our happiness – and our
wellbeing?
Well, laughter is generally considered to be an essential
behaviour of a happy, joyful person whilst lack of laughter
contributes to anxiety, depression, and illness. In today’s
society, as with happiness in general, we seem to have
forgotten how to laugh. Dr. Michael Titze, a German
psychologist tells us that,
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In the 1950’s people used to laugh 18 minutes a day, but today
we laugh not more than 6 minutes a day, despite the huge rise
in the standard of living
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Children can laugh up to 300-400 times a day, but when we grow
up to be adults this frequency comes down to less than 15 times
a day, if at all.
So why has laughter declined?
The answers will not surprise you. Here’s a few reminders. First
there’s the stress of living in a fast world, which is
increasingly dominated by anxiety and fear. Telecommunications
have made bad news instantly accessible to millions, thus
accentuating the anxiety and fear. People are working long
hours, under pressure to move fast. Transport is congested.
Cities are crowded. Divorce and family break-ups are
high. So negative
stress levels are constantly on the increase.
Many people live in the past, feeling guilty or resentful
whilst others worry about the future. Often the cause of perceived
difficulties is attributed to something or someone
else. So we don’t
take true responsibility and find it hard to live in the moment
– which of course is where laughter occurs.
Happiness is perceived as conditional on external factors and
becomes part of the “more, bigger, better” syndrome and the
pursuit of certain things in order to be happy, which if
successful results in a cycle of immediate fulfilment followed
by dissatisfaction and a renewed wanting that leaves a
lingering feeling of “what I have is not enough”. This becomes
a repetitive
feeling that “I have not got what I want, something is still
missing. If only I
could…..or …..when I ……..”. Addiction to desire is seen
as one of the most fundamental barriers to human contentment
and is all-pervasive in today’s society.
Laughter is seen as dependent on a “sense of humour”: we
believe we must have a reason to laugh, that laughter is about
laughing “at” something or somebody else, that it only happens
on certain occasions and that it depends on “one’s sense of
humour” ie. it is dependent on external stimuli or a belief you
have about your personality.
However, major hope is now available.
As a result of research in both East and West, people are
increasingly realising that laughter is something that can be
spontaneously created and need not be dependent on anything. In
fact you can laugh for no reason at all. Authentic laughter is an
energy that wells up from within. It is something that occurs
spontaneously, without a reason, resulting in the experience
often called joyfulness.
People might have lost it but it is perfectly possible to help
them get it back. People can be taught to laugh for no reason,
to discover their own innate capacity to experience their own
well-spring of laughter and joy. You do not have to be happy or
have a “sense of humour” or even have a reason to laugh. You do
not have to be constrained by your social
conditioning.
We are talking here about a simple technique that has proved so
powerful that it has become a world-wide phenomenon, after
being introduced in India by a medical doctor, Dr. Madan
Kataria, to help people manage the stress of life in
Mumbai. Dr.
Kataria was so concerned about this issue that one day he went
out into a park and asked as many people as he could to join
him in an instant laughter club. Eventually he managed to
persuade 4 people to join him. As others watched in initial
bemusement, they took it in turns to tell jokes. As we have
seen, laughter is infectious. Others started to join and soon
he had 50 people in his club.
Unfortunately they ran out of
jokes after two weeks and then two women complained because
the humour had become sexist and rude. To rescue his new
idea, and this was the crucial breakthrough, Dr Kataria
turned to the idea of laughter exercises to help people to
fake laughter, to “fake it till you make it”. That worked a
treat! He also turned to his wife, a yoga teacher, and
borrowed from yoga some of its deep breathing, which he
adapted to simple breathing exercises to support people’s
ability to sustain the laughter beneficially. Laughter Yoga
was born, his club recovered and soon the park was
attracting large numbers to pre-work laughter sessions. It
proved so popular that it spread, first all round India and
now across the globe
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