We need closure but it can be scary and so we avoid it

In the rush from one thing to the next we can leave things incomplete. There’s no closure. We might not finish a conversation; we might not tie up the loose ends; we might not ensure we’ve got everybody’s buy-in; we might not bring a relationship to a clear close; we not get to really say goodbye; we might not get round to saying what a person meant in our life, or hear what we meant to them; we not get to say how much we loved, or hear how much we were loved. Whether it matters or not depends on … Read more