In the end is a beginning

There’s a poignancy to autumn at this time, damp, wet, a chill in the air, sun shining low through golden leaves that cling forlornly to thinning trees. The summer is replaced by autumn and winter beckons. All is decaying – but then all is also preparing for the next spring. The end of October is, it is said, a time when the veils between the two worlds are thinner, at the time of the feast of Samhain. No wonder many often choose to leave. This time of ending, of closure, is a sad time, but it can also contain the … Read more

In memory of a very special person

I was very sad to learn recently that a major inspiration in my life, a very special person, has just died of a heart attack. Graham Browne led a very powerful program, Turning Point, that I attended at a very low point in my life in 1989 and it was through the work that followed that a very rapid transformation occurred for me. Many people have come out of seemingly nowhere to confirm what this man, with his fellow teachers, has achieved for them too. It’s one of those very big occasions when people sense another turning point. When someone … Read more

Learning to be comfortable with endings

As we come to the end of the week, no doubt many of you will be looking forward not just to the weekend but perhaps also to your holiday. Since it is estimated that just under half of people are satisfied with their jobs, and no doubt long received wisdom that weekends mark a better way of being than being at work, you might find yourself with positive feelings about the weekend. However, Friday also marks an ending, the end of a work cycle, if you are in work that is. We traditionally associate the weekend with time off. However, … Read more

In the end is the beginning

It’s been a bit of a week. It started with being in Dublin when Ireland was learning its fate at the hands of the EU and IMF and ended with the death of one of our friends. Sometimes life seems to go like this, a bunch of momentous events. Our friend who just died was 82 and had just written and published her autobiography, which it had taken her 4 years to write. I was really impressed that she, Mary, chose to wrap her life up in this way. One, to write an autobiography having never written a book before, … Read more